When My Best Friend Asked If I Was Going to Apologize First…

The answer is no. I will not apologize first. I didn’t do anything completely wrong in particular but I will say, it took years of what is essentially betrayal and times I had to pick up my own pieces and put myself back together. It’s been years, and I mean years, that I have been…

Why I Ride Solo

It was New Year’s Eve 2017 and the party I was supposed to go to fell through. It seemed as if it were too late to ask anyone if I could crash their plans. Trust me, if you know me, then you know I have no problem inviting myself to whatever is going on. I…

Don’t Swipe. Don’t Ask

Dear Guys Who Don’t Get It, Thanks to the new age of #SwipeLife, people think they can just ask whatever they want without having to deal with the consequences. You can simply unmatch with the person and never hear from them again. Let me just explain why it is not okay to ask someone extremely…

Visible Scars

I never thought about visible scars being a blessing… I think sometimes people look at me and think I’m too weird, too silly, too immature, or too reckless. But I think to have visible scars, people also think, “Wow she went through some trauma… Wow, she can laugh the way she does after going through…

5 Senses Into the Future.

It is 1:35am and I woke up crying. I didn’t understand why. My mom is sleeping next to me, so I couldn’t even cry out in the pain or agony that I felt in my heart. I wanted to get up and write in my journal, but I did not want to wake my mom up. I didn’t want to pick up my phone because I felt like I would never fall asleep if I did. I had so many thoughts running through my mind and all I could think about is, “This is it. This is the moment you write about. If you don’t write it now while it is still raw in your soul, you will forget. It’s now or never.” That is how this became my first blog post.